Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Annie Flaxman with the following comment:
Violet was my 2nd cousin twice removed and wish to include the details on it in a book about the family of 4 brothers who emigrated to NZ in the 1870s to whom she is related. The book now runs to over 300 pages and I am trying to include photographic evidence where-ever possible. I hope therefore that you will give permission so I can give copies to relatives in UK and NZ. Thanks